Use the Healing Power of Dreams to Grieve in a New Way

All are welcome who feel called: Whether you are atheist, agnostic, Buddhist, Christian, Jewish, Muslim or from any other belief system or non-religious. A dream visit from your dead loved one is not dependent on belief in an afterlife. Although I integrate practices and wisdom from the East and spirituality, there are no religious undertones in this invitation, and many practices are deeply rooted in science, verifiable facts and ancient practices. Naturally, no one can prove that there is an afterlife. However, there is enough evidence through research and anecdotes to support the belief that our deceased loved ones can communicate with us through our dreams. Based on research, majority of the visitation dreams people experienced all had similar qualities in the sense that they were healing, transformative and helped bring peace and solace to the grieving dreamer irrespective of their belief in an afterlife or not. The good thing about these visitation dreams is that even if you don’t believe in them, no one will have to convince you once you have one. Here are anecdotes from The Dream Detective podcast Episode 9 on after-death visitation dreams as well as the words of McNara, a bonafide atheist, who had a visitation dream with each of his parents 6 months after they passed. You can also investigate Jennifer Shorter’s doctoral project “Visitation Dreams in Grieving Individuals”, and grief researcher, Joshua Black, Ph.D. who is one of the world’s leading academic experts in the field of grief dreams. The bottom line is that I am not asking you to believe me. I am inviting you to be skeptical of your skepticism and approach this as a scientific research project. There is no conflict with your religious beliefs or lack of.

Actually, you do! Everyone dreams and there is a branch of science dedicated to this study called “Oneirology” and according to them, during a typical lifetime, a person spends an average of 6 years dreaming. You are probably just not remembering your dreams. In this invitation, I will show you strategies to improve your dream recall. It is a learnable skill. I promise.​

This invitation is suitable for any one who has a deep desire to reconnect with their deceased loved one, is in a balanced emotional state and is willing to invest the time needed to learn the skills to have a dream visit. If you put in the effort, this invitation will take you through the entire spectrum of dream reunions – from barely recalling a dream to being able schedule consistent dream dates with your loved one as well as process your grief in a way that is life-affirming. And you’ll undergo a massive transformation in the process. Learn more.

The invitation will take place over 11 days. During this time, you'll have a combination of daily email content, and 1-1 online mentoring sessions. Here is the break down. 1) Daily email content ~ 10-15 minutes 2) Daily practices ~45 minutes a day (includes morning and night rituals) 3) 1-1 sessions – 3 (45-minute sessions) 4) Dream circles – 1 hour /week This comes to anywhere ~60 minutes a day or ~15 hours over the course of 30 days (you can spread out the scheduling of your 3 sessions). Please only apply for this invitation if you know that you are in a place in your life where you can invest the time required to ensure that you get the best out of this experience.

There are 4 main ingredients to having a dream visit – three of which are within your control (Desire to have one, skillset, and your emotional state) and the last one is your loved one’s timing which is out of your control. No teacher or system can guarantee you a dream visit with your loved, and anyone who claims otherwise is lying to you and simply looking to trick you into parting with your hard-earned cash. Your loved one is the wildcard in this equation. You are inviting them to visit you in a dream, and even if all the other ingredients are in place, it might still not happen right away. Your loved one has agency and even though they want to visit you, they might not be in the right space to do it yet. This is where there is a gray area and I cannot offer you any guarantees that they will visit. If they are not visiting you now, please try to accept that there is a reason for it – and know that it can still happen in the future. From my experience, it is easier to connect with them in the very early days (first 30 days or so after they die) and then anywhere from a year later. During the 11days, I will teach you everything I know and have used to consistently have 100+ dream visits from my mother in the 5+years since she died. It will be up to you to the invest the time to learn the skills and practise them. If at the end of the 11 days, if you don’t have a dream visit, I will continue to support you on this journey for at least 30 days, at the end of which I will provide you with a roadmap to help you move forward.

I am so glad to hear! Here is what the process looks like: The process I take this 11-day Dream Reunion invitation very seriously and so my goal is to create a close-knit community of people who are ready to reconnect with their loved one and rewrite their grief story. To do this, I will be accepting a maximum of 5 people for this 1-1 invitation and ask every person who accepts this invitation to complete the visitation dream quiz after sign up. Step 1: Sign Up for the Invitation By signing up for the invitation, you’ll reserve your spot in the 11-day invitation. Step 2: Complete the Visitation Dream Scorecard Once you sign up, you’ll get an email inviting you to complete the visitation dreams scorecard. (Complete it only if you haven't already completed it in the course of browsing this website). The visitation dreams scorecard takes about 3-5 minutes to complete. It is a chance to share where you are in your grief journey, why you are you want to accept the invitation at this time and if you are ready to embark on this journey. I am looking for people who have the strong desire to reconnect with their person and are willing to invest the time and resources needed to get a dream visit. Step 3: Review & Onboarding I will review every scorecard carefully to make sure there’s a good fit on both sides and send a response in 24 hours. If I think, we are not a good fit, I will still send out an email to schedule a call so that we can talk through your specific scenario and I cannot provide you with support in moving forward. If I think we are good fit, I will send you an email to schedule an onboarding call with me in which I will go over what to expect over the next 11 days of the invitation as well as onboarding tasks you will need to complete before we start. You will also get to choose your start date for the 11 day invitation.

Signing up for the 11-Day Dream Reunions Invitation represents a big commitment and investment to yourself, your loved one and your life and I acknowledge that it is not for everyone and it might not be for you. I take this commitment seriously and I have poured out my heart and soul into creating this 1-1 mentorship container and I want to ensure that it is a mutual fit. I am offering many hours of myself over the 11 days, and I only want to work with people who will value the experience and put in the requisite time and effort needed to manifest a dream visit, and learn how to process their grief through dreams. This invitation is focused on being extremely valuable to the people who have a deep urgency and fire in their belly to reconnect with their deceased loved ones and and nurture a new type of relationship using the healing power of dreams. If you feel called to participate, once you reserve your spot, you will complete the visitation dream quiz which I will review to ensure that this invitation is the right one for you and that your timing is also right. Though I look at your application based on three main components ( urgency, mindset, and emotional state), this invitation is less of a fit if you are still very early in your grief journey ( 0 - 1 year ) or your beliefs about what happens after death are fixed, with no wiggle room to explore and investigate new information. If I am not sure, after reviewing your answers, I will request a quick 10 minute call with you. By doing this, we both have an opportunity to have a conversation about this fit check, and you’ll have a chance to ask any questions about your particular situation directly. An application helps me make sure there is a good match on both sides and that I can help you have a visitation dream at this point in time on your grief journey.